By: a found through facebook mother

a found through facebook mother — Mon, 20 Nov 2017 03:57:23 +0000

Not surprising. Florida, from all I have learned over the years, was a very popular state to make babies “disappear”. The records therefore cannot be freely opened for many years to come due to the possibility of many finding out they were snatched from their mothers through finding their mothers and learning the truth. I wish more adoptees would come to see the true agenda behind all of this obfuscation and obstructionist behavior by those who hold the records. It is not mothers who are behind this. Not when, in other states, it’s only 1 percent or less of mothers that veto. Is it not becoming more and more apparent that they, the holders of the keys to your records, want us dead before they are willing to turn them over to you. They are terrified of the truth. Can’t you see that? I think they know a lot of us die from grief of a broken heart or by suicide at an early age so 40 years is a way to cover it. The dirty, dark past of coercive and forced adoptions must be held in darkness. That past is not that far back, ergo the 2018 and beyond release with no restrictions. Adoptive parents were the ones that were promised “confidentiality” and “no one would ever know” and “the child is yours forever”. So tired of the lies. “Born to” that’s lie #1. and they’re still telling that lie on every new “amended” birth certificate. What does that tell you? Why would any adoptee believe someone or an organization who continues the practice of such an egregious lie? I truly do not understand why it is so difficult to see. I know some mothers do veto. I could have been one of them. The reason? Because of the crap lies and refusal to give me any hope or even the eye and hair color of my lost to adoption son. But oh, it’s all about protecting ME. Bull! Big lie number 2.

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By: a found through facebook mother