This fascinating book is a collection of Ms. Small's essays,
written over a two
year period. The essays look at adoption from a psychosocial or
environmental perspective. They outline the history and background of
American adoption culture and explore the hidden but powerful religious,
social and economic factors that affect adoption's collective image. They
are often critical of child welfare's adoption premises, policies, and
practices.
The author believes that adoption is an industry that
has largely gained power from the desperation, neediness and powerlessness
of the birth parents, infertile couples, and adoptees that it serves.
We see through these essays how society has invested
the adoption industry with an image comprable to that of a sacred cow.
Criticism has customarily been taboo. Recent reforms were forced upon the
industry by societal shifts. Despite protestations to the contrary, the
undercurrent of negative feelings and attitudes generally accorded the
adoptive family as a variant, and adoptive status in particular, remain
much the same.
You'll find an abundance of compelling arguments that
support the theory that secrecy in adoption breeds shame.
Any one of these interesting essays could serve as an
excellent starting point for stimulating discussion among various adoption
groups. They would be extremely valuable when talking with adoptive
families, child welfare professionals, support groups, and the media,
because these essays come from the most important person in the "adoption
mystique," the adoptee herself.